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Settling, calm behaviour and enrichment

A Weimaraner's off switch is taught, not found: reward calm on a mat, protect rest, and use sniffing, chewing and food puzzles to help them wind down.

A Weimaraner's off switch is taught, not something they arrive with. Calm comes from three things working together: rewarding relaxation, protecting rest, and giving your dog's brain and nose enough to do. This guide covers mat settling, rest, enrichment that calms rather than winds up, and settling in cafés and when visitors come. It is part of our training and behaviour hub.

Key takeaways

  • Reward calm when it happens: a sigh, a lie-down or a head on the paws is worth a quiet treat
  • More exercise is not always the answer; sniffing, chewing and rest often settle a Weim better than another run
  • If your dog cannot settle even when tired, fed and safe, talk to your vet and a qualified behaviourist

An off switch is taught

The Weimaraner Club of America describes a big, active hunting breed with the stamina and desire to work and play for long stretches,1 and a dog like that will happily keep going all day if nobody shows them another way. Many owners respond with more exercise. That helps up to a point, but a Weim who is only ever fitter and busier can end up with a bigger engine and still no brakes.

Calm is a behaviour like any other. If you reward it, you will see more of it. That means noticing the quiet moments you normally ignore, because you are relieved they are happening, and paying for them. AVSAB recommends reward-based training for teaching everyday skills as well as for changing unwanted behaviour,2 and calm is one of the most useful everyday skills there is.

It also means arranging the day so calm can happen. AVSAB points out that management, setting the dog up to make good choices and avoiding situations that trigger unwanted behaviour, has a vital role in training.2

Mat settling

A mat (or a folded blanket) becomes a portable "this is where we relax" cue you can take to friends' houses, cafés and the vet. Keep sessions short and regular, and end on something easy; RSPCA UK gives the same advice for all training.3

  1. Make the mat valuable. Put it down and drop a treat on it whenever your dog steps on it. Pick it up between sessions.
  2. Wait for a lie-down. Sit nearby and reward any lie-down on the mat, without asking for it.
  3. Pay for relaxation. Now reward signs of settling: a hip rolling to one side, the head going down, a sigh. Deliver treats calmly, between the paws.
  4. Add a little duration. Space out the treats gradually, keeping your dog relaxed throughout.
  5. Add life around it. Read a book, have a coffee, move around the room. Reward your dog for staying settled.
  6. Release on cue. Say "free" or "off you go" before your dog gets up, so the mat has a clear end.
  7. Take it on tour. Practise in a quiet room, then the garden, then a friend's house, before a café.

Never use the mat as a punishment or physically hold your dog on it. It should always be somewhere good.

A young Weimaraner sits calmly on a mat in a bright kitchen, looking up at its owner.

Rest and sleep budgets

Rest is not wasted time. Puppies and adolescents in particular need a great deal of sleep, and an over-tired young dog often gets wilder, mouthier and less able to listen, not more tired. We do not give fixed hours here, because dogs differ; the principle is that your dog's day should include plenty of genuinely undisturbed rest.

Ways to protect it:

For puppies, the first 30 days guide shows how rest fits into a puppy's day.

Enrichment that calms

RSPCA Australia describes enrichment as activities that engage a dog's mind, body and senses, and says it can promote relaxation, reduce stress and anxiety, and help prevent unwanted behaviour.4 Not all enrichment calms, though. A wild game of fetch is fun but winds many Weims up. For settling, choose activities that are slow, repetitive and nose-led.

CalmingExciting (still good, but not right before rest)
Sniffing walks and scatter feeding in grassBall chasing and frisbee
Chewing a safe, long-lasting chewRough play with other dogs
Licking a lick matTug games
Food puzzles and stuffed food toysRunning alongside a bike
Simple find-it gamesFast agility-style games

RSPCA Australia notes that scent enrichment has been shown to increase engagement, reduce stress-related behaviours and increase time spent resting, and that dogs are less likely to get bored with activities that involve chewing or feeding.4 It also warns that poorly done enrichment can backfire: the same toys every day soon become boring, and relying heavily on food can lead to weight gain, so take treats from your dog's daily food.4

For more ideas see scent games for Weimaraners. If chewing is getting your dog into trouble, see destructive behaviour.

A long-haired Weimaraner sniffs the forest floor among leaves and moss.

Café and visitor settles

Settling somewhere busy is an advanced skill. Build it in stages, and choose the easy option while you are learning.

At a café or pub:

When visitors come:

Signs of over-arousal

Learning your dog's signs of being over-aroused lets you step in before things go wrong. Common signs include:

When you see them, lower the excitement: move away from the trigger, scatter some food, offer a chew, or take your dog somewhere quiet. Do not punish an over-aroused dog; it adds stress to a dog who already has too much.

When to get help

Talk to your vet if your dog cannot settle even when they are tired, fed and safe, if restlessness is new, or if they seem uncomfortable lying down; your vet can check whether a health problem is contributing.2 Your vet can refer you to a qualified behaviourist if your dog's arousal tips into aggression, fear or obsessive behaviours such as spinning or tail chasing. Look for professionals who use reward-based methods only, as AVSAB and the Pet Professional Guild recommend.25 Our editorial policy explains why. To understand where a Weim's energy comes from, see Weimaraner temperament.

Common questions

Will more exercise make my Weimaraner calmer?

Sometimes, but not always. Exercise matters, yet a dog who only ever gets more running can become fitter without learning to settle. Mix exercise with sniffing, chewing, training and protected rest.

Is mat training cruel or boring for a high-energy dog?

No, as long as it is taught with rewards and your dog's other needs are met. A mat gives your dog a clear, comfortable place to relax.

Footnotes

  1. Weimaraner Club of America, Living with a Weimaraner. ↩

  2. AVSAB, Position statement on humane dog training (2021). ↩ ↩2 ↩3 ↩4

  3. RSPCA UK, Dog training. ↩

  4. RSPCA Australia, Why is enrichment important for dogs? ↩ ↩2 ↩3

  5. Pet Professional Guild, Guiding principles. ↩

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